My name is Magenta - I am a kinky, queer, polyamorous mother of two.

My exploration of non-traditional relationship models began in my late teens when I stumbled upon the concept of ethical non-monogamy. It resonated with me deeply, challenging conventional narrative of relationships that had never quite felt right to me. Growing up, I often felt constrained by societal expectations and traditional relationship models. Discovering alternative ways of relating to others opened up a world of possibilities for me.

Driven by my passion for understanding human interaction and connection, I have spent the last few decades learning, studying, listening, and experimenting. I have been lucky enough to have a large community of people in the poly, kink, and queer communities that have been willing to talk with me - to share their experiences and knowledge. I began developing philosophies and toolkits for navigating these unique partnerships.

I found that people within the poly and ENM community were often flying blind, without the benefit of healthy support systems. Things have improved a lot since then, but at the beginning, it was almost impossible to find relationship support for non-monogamous partnerships. Very few people had successful non-monogamous partnerships to learn from.  There were incredibly limited resources for people trying to thrive in these beautiful, complicated dynamics.

I began engaging in public speaking engagements and education around kink, sexuality, queer issues, and ethical non-monogamy. For over 20 years, I have had the privilege of supporting individuals at various stages of their journeys, offering guidance and helping them navigate the complexities of their relationships.

One of the most treasured compliments I've received is being called "emotionally multi-lingual." Much of my work revolves around fostering genuine understanding and communication among well-intentioned individuals. By creating a space for honest dialogue, vulnerability, and respect, I aim to facilitate honest, productive, healing conversations. I want people to feel informed, capable, and centered in themselves - able to advocate for themselves, to hold healthy boundaries, and to respect and value the needs and boundaries of others.